i came across this quotation, and thought it was a good reminder for myself and hopefully for you as well.
"A woman who fears the Lord will not run away from God to satisfy her
longings and relieve her anxieties. She will wait for the Lord. She will
hope in God. She will stay close to the heart of God and trust in his
promises. The prospect of departing into the way of sin will be too
fearful to pursue; and the benefits of abiding in the shadow of the
Almighty too glorious to forsake."
-John Piper